Not to be dramatic…

I know how that sounds.

But hear me out.

I used to cram everything into every day.
Deep work, admin, calls, thinking, recovery -
all stacked on top of each other. 

My brain never knew what mode to be in.

I was productive. 

I was also exhausted by Wednesday (Tuesday) and too fried to enjoy my weekends.

Now I schedule days where I literally do nothing work-related. 

I call them REST days.
They go on the calendar first - before the meetings, before the deadlines, before anyone else's needs.

And, yes, there are definitely some weeks where a whole day just isn't happening. 

Life doesn't always cooperate. 

So there are times when I'm scheduling rest hours. 

Pockets of time where I can unplug, shut down, and actually be somewhere without my brain running a to-do list in the background. 

Sometimes that's time alone.
Sometimes it's family time.
Sometimes it's dinner with a friend where I leave my phone in the car.

The point is it's protected, intentionally planned. It's not whatever's left over.

Here's what actually changed:

→ My ideas got better (creativity needs space, not more effort)
→ My decisions got faster (a rested brain stops second-guessing everything)
→ My patience came back (my family noticed before I did)
→ My "on" days got sharper (because I stopped running on fumes)

The days (or hours) I do nothing are the reason the other days work.

What would shift if you scheduled the nothing first?

Drop me a note if you’re going to give it a try 💫