Sep 29
We don't grow at the same pace
Last year a client triggered me into my own growth. This year the client came back and I was ready. The surprise was who needed to grow this time.
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Newsletter
Sep 22
The familiar hell and the 12-month question
The known misery has stopped making a case for itself. One question forces the comparison it keeps avoiding.
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Sep 15
A reason, a season, or a lifetime
The old saying is a sorting question. Every relationship the clearing left standing is serving one of the three.
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Sep 08
Honoring yourself has a pace
You did the clearing. The people around you did not get the memo. What the first weeks with a new boundary ask of you.
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Sep 01
Only what honors me remains
The difference between loving yourself and honoring yourself.
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Aug 25
Effortlessly on time
The margin that keeps me calm while everyone else races the clock.
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Aug 18
The argument your body keeps winning
The 3 a.m. verdict your spreadsheet cannot see.
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Aug 11
The floor my family built
First in my family at a four-year university, and reclaiming the right to want more.
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Aug 04
What you teach them about your availability
The people who love you believe what you show them. What have you been showing?
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Jul 28
The music of my name
I spent decades letting people say it wrong. What changed.
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Jul 21
Warts and all
The body you have today is the one that carried you here.
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Jul 07
What grows when you stop selling
Every interest I've had for 20 years got the same evaluation. This one broke the pattern.
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