Aug 11
The floor my family built
First in my family at a four-year university, and reclaiming the right to want more.
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Newsletter
Aug 04
What you teach them about your availability
The people who love you believe what you show them. What have you been showing?
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Jul 28
The music of my name
I spent decades letting people say it wrong. What changed.
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Jul 21
Warts and all
The body you have today is the one that carried you here.
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Jul 07
What grows when you stop selling
Every interest I've had for 20 years got the same evaluation. This one broke the pattern.
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Jun 30
39 months in: it was the habitat all along
The constraint I thought was my goal turned out to be the habitat my goals grew in.
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Jun 23
Every past version of you is source material now
Ciaran made $6,000 in two days from his side hustle by combining two skills he already had.
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Jun 16
The yes I couldn't say a year ago
A year ago I walked away from a project that felt impossible. In April it came back, and my body said yes immediately.
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Jun 09
Sixty pounds in the rain
A two-sentence Slack four months ago made this moment possible.
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Jun 02
Monetize the systems you already built
The Friday afternoon I took the Effortless question to my office wall with a stack of sticky notes.
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May 26
What would it be like if this were easy?
I bring this question to almost every troubleshooting session. The Friday afternoon I aimed it at who I'm becoming now, and the answer rewrote itself.
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May 19
What do we talk about now?
When the logistics handled themselves, the first thing that showed up was an awkward silence.
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